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Tuesday, July 13, 2010

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It has been over a month since aunt Leah shared any words of wisdom. This time she's got something to say about dating.

Yikes!! I can't even imagine my little boy going on a date, but it's going to happen whether I want it to or not. I just hope he's at least 20 before the girl craze begins.


Dear Lucas,

I recently started dating someone seriously so I thought that this would be a perfect time for me to tell you about dating and what it means to be the "perfect guy". It’s kind of funny for me to think about you and dating right now but you are not going to be a little guy forever and will eventually be interested in the ladies. Having said that, there’s no rush at all. You have your whole life to stress about girls and learn what makes women tick. Take your time and enjoy the process of meeting your Ms. Right.

Okay, so there’s no beating around the bush, dating can be tough. In fact, maintaining a solid relationship is tough too. It’s all tough. There, now that I’ve gotten that out of way, we can get to the fun stuff...

While dating can be complicated and frustrating and at times exhausting, it can be incredible too. When you find someone whom you want to spend your time with and whom you have more than just ‘friend’ feelings towards, it can be one of the best feelings in the world. When you are really involved, everything just feels better. Food tastes yummier, colors are brighter and even music sounds more amazing. I can’t explain it but this all really does happen. I can’t wait until you experience all this for the first time. There is nothing like your first love. So, please call your aunt and fill her in!

Of course you have to consider yourself lucky when that person you care for, cares for you right back. Trust me, so far in my dating life, I’ve had numerous crushes but maybe only a couple guys have actually reciprocated those feelings back at me. It can be very sad and certainly a self-esteem killer, but like the saying goes, there are a lot of fish in the sea.

Now I’m sure your mom and dad have already told you all this or you’ve picked it up somewhere else no doubt, but a month or so ago I created the ultimate “Perfect Guy” list, so I thought that I would share a few things I learned from my research. While compiling this list may have been fun, it’s really not that practical. There are really no set characteristics girls need to have in their perfect guy. It's all feelings and connections. Having a list will ruin all that. We just need to make sure that we are open to love, every kind of love. It's really not supposed to make sense or fit a mold or a list. Another thing to keep in mind is that most girls just want a guy who can have hot dogs and beers at a baseball game during the day...then wine and dine them at the Met later at night. Personally, I love a guy who can make me laugh. An awesome sense of humor is very important to me. You are already cracking me up at just a year old so I’m sure you’ll be good on that.

Well, kid, stay tuned for my next guest post. I love you very much little Lucas.

Thanks, aunt Leah for the fun and sage advice. And by the way, when do we get to meet your latest someone? Hmmmm???

The best is yet to be.

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8 Comments:

Blogger "As We Speak" said...

How cute is that?
Brunch101

July 13, 2010 at 8:16 AM  
Blogger KLZ said...

I still want a list. Not to put into USE but just because I like list.

But, sigh, your advice is true. Lists don't work here.

July 13, 2010 at 8:17 AM  
Blogger KLZ said...

Blogger tried to eat my comment but I said:

I still want a list. I know this advice is true but oh I love lists so very much.

(Hope this doesn't dupe up)

July 13, 2010 at 8:17 AM  
Anonymous Kate said...

Good advice! That being said, I'm totally locking my daughter in a closet between the ages of, oh, 13 and 35.

July 13, 2010 at 2:18 PM  
Blogger Natalie said...

Well, Aunt Leah has some great advice...listen to her Lucas!

July 13, 2010 at 3:10 PM  
Blogger Ms. Understood said...

Great advice. I wish guys talked to their moms more about what a woman is looking for in a man.

July 13, 2010 at 8:26 PM  
Blogger Aspiring Napper said...

I have NO IDEA what I am going to tell my little one about dating when the times comes. I only hope she is like me ( I never got too serious about anyone-- I was not commitment-minded at all! lol.) but I also hope she is NOT like me in the area of (low) self-esteem and needing a lot of self-validation.

July 14, 2010 at 12:44 AM  
Blogger Leah said...

I loved writing this and totally look forward to chatting with Lucas about this stuff for real! : )

July 15, 2010 at 10:14 PM  

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